Hi Guys and Gals!
Happy Monday! How was your weekend? Mine
was good. I just polished off the last of the leftovers from the fourth of
July, so, I’m ready to start cooking up some new recipes.
Today’s topic for Meredith’s Monday Musing
is: Bullying in the Author Community.
I have to be honest, I think it’s
absolutely, downright horrible that this topic has crossed my mind as much as
it has these past few months. Bullying is never right, ever. I don’t care what
any person says in defense of it, it’s wrong.
One thing I’ve never understood about
bullying is why bullies want to hurt someone else? Is it because the person
they’re picking on hurt them first? Is the bully jealous of the person? Are
they angry at the person? Or does bullying make a person feel big, strong, like
their the top dog? I don’t know.
If it were me and I was bullying another
person because they had hurt me before or I was angry at them for something
they did, I’d go and talk to them about it. Nine times out of ten, if you talk
it out with them, you’ll probably resolve the issue that was bugging you and
you’ll feel better.
If you’re jealous of the person you’re
bullying, improve yourself then. The person who you’re picking on, they haven’t
done anything wrong. They’re just doing what they do. The best thing that will
make you feel better is to better yourself. Once you feel happier about
yourself and improve your writing, you probably won’t feel jealous about that
person anymore.
If you’re picking on someone because it
makes you feel better, well, I don’t know what to say to that. I will never be
able to understand how causing another person pain or making them feel
like a small person can make a person
feel good. Why would anyone want to cause another person pain, whether physical
or emotional? For real, I have no idea why. However, if a bully is reading this
post and this is why you enjoy bullying others, go to a therapist. Get some
help. Sorry to be blunt, but that’s all I can say.
As for the people in this community who
have/are being bullied, know that the entire community stands behind you. We
will not tolerate any bullying here. Just reach out to one of us to know that
you are not alone.
On that note, that’s all I have for today.
Happy Monday, Folks!
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